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Why Your Relationship Sucks but You Won’t Admit It

Apparently, true love no longer exist but rather something as simple as “Relationship goals”. No longer are the days of wowing your spouse with your personality and genuine heart. It has now resulted to great looking pictures that gives off the image of a perfect relationship. SAVE THAT BULL FOR SOMEONE ELSE!

Images can prove to be false and so is many of today’s relationships. Here are a few reason’s why your relationship sucks but you won’t admit it.

  1. Your boyfriend has no money but he always looks good.
  2. Your girlfriend has one too many kids.
  3. You look good in pictures but secretly want to break up
  4. There is only one bread winner in the relationship and you’re tired of paying for everything.
  5. There is only one car in the relationship and only you pay the damn car note.
  6. Your spouse has not taken you out on a real date in three months.
  7. You really can’t deal with the baby mama/daddy issues although you thought you could.
  8. His/Her lack of stability has turned you completely off.
  9. You’re pretty much celibate in your relationship because you would rather have sex with someone else.

Anything here sound way to familiar for your own good? The big question is “Why won’t you admit it”. The answer is very simple. It’s because you have not admitted it out loud. Of course you don’t want others to judge you and think your picture perfect relationship is not…..perfect. Really! You told yourself that you had grown and you would not be petty and give him/her a real chance. Bump that! Chance up! I’m tired! I quit! How long is this going to take? Why don’t you have a real job yet? Do I have to pay for our next date?

People often say dating is hard. I say being with someone who you “Love” but can do nothing for you is much harder. You tell me if I’m wrong.

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Can Men and Women Be Friends?

They can but I think for the true friendships there is still a hidden physical attraction. People just respect their friendships too much to go there.

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Often times, a conversation on this topic escalates into a full fledged argument. Can men and women be friends? There are a million different answers to this question but what is the real truth? Men and women can be circmstancial friends! I would more than likely check the “Other” box.

Looking througout my little black book of male friends, I have realized that I don’t really have any that have not resorted to some kind of sexual situation. Whether it was a friend that I kissed, or someone who professed his like for me, or someone that I have actually had sex with; the male friendship for me has not particullary worked out.

Is there a difference if you have gay male friends? Some would argue that there is because “Gay men are not attracted to women” so that makes the friendship real. That’s not my opinion but the opinion…

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Can Men and Women Be Friends?

Often times, a conversation on this topic escalates into a full fledged argument. Can men and women be friends? There are a million different answers to this question but what is the real truth? Men and women can be circmstancial friends! I would more than likely check the “Other” box.

Looking througout my little black book of male friends, I have realized that I don’t really have any that have not resorted to some kind of sexual situation. Whether it was a friend that I kissed, or someone who professed his like for me, or someone that I have actually had sex with; the male friendship for me has not particullary worked out.

Is there a difference if you have gay male friends? Some would argue that there is because “Gay men are not attracted to women” so that makes the friendship real. That’s not my opinion but the opinion of real life people.

What makes a friendship real? 

For those of you who do have great male/female friendships, are you or have you ever been sexually attracted to your friend? Women will go to their graves before they admit to being sexually attracted to their male friends. It’s a ton of “That’s my brother” and “I grew up with him”. I don’t know the male perspective but I’m pretty sure I can figure out what it is.

All in all, the question still remains. Comment below and explain your rationale.

 

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My Name is _________ and I’m an Addict!

Every other person that I know is addicted to social media and does not even recognize that they are. There are hundreds of different social media sites and people have on average five different social media accounts. I hate going out with my friends simply because they no longer know how to have real fun. Every second of every minute is spent with their faces buried in their phones, scrolling through Instagram and Facebook. No one knows how to have a conversation, so it’s pure silence at the table. Instead, everyone is pulling out their phones, wanting to make videos of nothingness and take terrible pictures.

I asked 26 of my friends if they could honestly give up their phones for one day and only 5 answered yes. ONE DAY! Some people can barely go one hour without logging on to one of their social media accounts. IT’S  EVERYWHERE!

I have been to concerts, stage plays, church, comedy shows, graduations, and to the movie theater. I have also seen people logged on to social media sites at any given times during all of these outings. Why are you scrolling through Facebook while in the Movie Theater? You just spent $15 on a 3-D movie to actually read someone else’s status on Facebook for 2 ½ hours. That sounds like an issue/addiction to me.

Here’s a test: Only use your phone if someone calls or texts you. Otherwise do not use any internet. If you feel yourself wanting to touch your phone, log on to Instagram, make a funny video for Vine, or read a stranger’s Facebook status, then you have a problem. It’s called “I’m addicted to social media and I really like the attention that I get”. Put a group of people in a room and take away all technology. What do you get? Silence! Those same people are probably thinking about what’s going on in social media land and what are they missing. Social Media is a new drug! Everyone is itching and scratching to log on.

Source: My Name is _________ and I’m an Addict!

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My Name is _________ and I’m an Addict!

Every other person that I know is addicted to social media and does not even recognize that they are. There are hundreds of different social media sites and people have on average five different social media accounts. I hate going out with my friends simply because they no longer know how to have real fun. Every second of every minute is spent with their faces buried in their phones, scrolling through Instagram and Facebook. No one knows how to have a conversation, so it’s pure silence at the table. Instead, everyone is pulling out their phones, wanting to make videos of nothingness and take terrible pictures.

I asked 26 of my friends if they could honestly give up their phones for one day and only 5 answered yes. ONE DAY! Some people can barely go one hour without logging on to one of their social media accounts. IT’S EVERYWHERE!Addiction

I have been to concerts, stage plays, church, comedy shows, graduations, and to the movie theater. I have also seen people logged on to social media sites at any given times during all of these outings. Why are you scrolling through Facebook while in the Movie Theater? You just spent $15 on a 3-D movie to actually read someone else’s status on Facebook for 2 ½ hours. That sounds like an issue/addiction to me.

Here’s a test: Only use your phone if someone calls or texts you. Otherwise do not use any internet. If you feel yourself wanting to touch your phone, log on to Instagram, make a funny video for Vine, or read a stranger’s Facebook status, then you have a problem. It’s called “I’m addicted to social media and I really like the attention that I get”. Put a group of people in a room and take away all technology. What do you get? Silence! Those same people are probably thinking about what’s going on in social media land and what are they missing. Social Media is a new drug! Everyone is itching and scratching to log on.

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“Dear Dad” Monolouge

Kerry- 18 y/o male of mixed descent, sits at his desk in his dorm room and pens a letter to his dad.

Dear Mom, (Rips paper out of notebook and balls it up)

Kerry

Dear Dad,

Not to long ago you asked me why I no longer speak to you. I remember seeing you with this guy. I remember seeing him move his lips. I remember seeing you punch him in the chest. Then I heard what you told him. You called him scum and you spit in his face. I wanted so badly to know what this guy had said to make you disappear and have this stranger appear. What did this normal looking guy or……just human being say to you to turn you into a monster? Huh, Dad? I remember running into this guy and he remembered me. I asked him what went wrong! What did he say to you! He said: Dear Dad, I’m gay! And when I told you this, you called me scum and spit in my face. I don’t talk to you because all gay people are contagious and I’m afraid you will contract what I have. LOVE!